When we say no to the addiction of abuse (removing ourselves from it and from all contact), we are saying

No to:

  • brainwashing
  • living in fear
  • addiction
  • lies
  • manipulation
  • pretense
  • foolishness
  • seduction
  • fairytale ideas
  • unhealthy connections
  • trauma
  • fantasy
  • male ownership
  • destruction
  • foolish pride (theirs and yours)
  • concealing abusive facts
  • wearing abuse on your face, body and heart
  • Push Button Barbie (a.k.a. Yes Girl)
  • violence
  • rage
  • enmeshment
  • placating
  • self-destruction
  • and so much more...