When we say no to the addiction of abuse (removing ourselves from it and from all contact), we are saying
No to:
- brainwashing
- living in fear
- addiction
- lies
- manipulation
- pretense
- foolishness
- seduction
- fairytale ideas
- unhealthy connections
- trauma
- fantasy
- male ownership
- destruction
- foolish pride (theirs and yours)
- concealing abusive facts
- wearing abuse on your face, body and heart
- Push Button Barbie (a.k.a. Yes Girl)
- violence
- rage
- enmeshment
- placating
- self-destruction
- and so much more...